The Homebody Escape

Greetings all! I pray that this week's blog finds you living the fullest life imaginable. Now... Let's get to it. There are as many singles lifestyles out here, as there are singles. Some of us hop on a plane and meet up with friends/family several times each year. Some keep their social interactions local and have every weekend booked in advance. We have others who are very active in religious and community organizations on the weekends. And then there are the "homebodies."

For years I was a self-proclaimed homebody. It's really great that homebodies like hanging out with themselves, but in some cases it's a form of protection and place of safety. I, like many homebodies, built a fortress of solitude around myself. No one could get in to harm me. I knew that I too had all of my weekends booked in advance. I had a date every Friday and Saturday night with ME. And afterall, what is so horrible about that! I'm a pretty great person -- I'm smart, attractive, reasonable and I have a great sense of humor, right? People like me and search me out for advice and encouragement. Well... So what?! Really, so? Other people need to experience the "greatness" of you, don't you think? I hope so.

The joy of life is that we aren't the only living beings. We have to set aside our apprehensions long enough share ourselves and grow with others. The world is a huge place and yes the thought of what could happen can be overwelming, but life can only be an adventure if we make it one. And believe me there are few, if any, opportunities for adventure and journal worthy experiences in your livingroom with the remote or in a book. Books are great, but those are someone else's adventures. It's time to have your own.

What's one of the best ways to meet new people and not have to worry about "working the room?" VOLUNTEERISM. Start there. Find a cause you are interested in and contact the local offices to find out how you can help. The possibilities and opportunities are endless. You may meet some really great people and if nothing else, you release yourself from captivity. Start getting involved in activities at your church, something you like -- If you don't like it and it becomes more of a chore, than a time of sharing, then you'll quit and this may send you back to the fortress.

Another good thing to do is to visit your local "happenings" site. Add a few things to your calendar and pay particular attention to the FREE events. If you are like me and have very few nearby friends, FREE events in your city/county are ideal outings. Attend one or two each month.

Listen... This particular blog is for me as much as the next homebody. I'm getting out more than ever before, but I know I could do more. Remember, ABUNDANT LIFE exists outside our four walls and most often outside our comfort zone. Let's broaden our horizons and watch our territories extend as well.

See you next time! And invite singles you know to follow my blog!